How to use the 'main' parameter in package.json?

To answer your first question, the way you load a module is depending on the module entry point and the main parameter of the package.json.

Let's say you have the following file structure:

my-npm-module
|-- lib
|   |-- module.js
|-- package.json

Without main parameter in the package.json, you have to load the module by giving the module entry point: require('my-npm-module/lib/module.js').

If you set the package.json main parameter as follows "main": "lib/module.js", you will be able to load the module this way: require('my-npm-module').

From the npm documentation:

The main field is a module ID that is the primary entry point to your program. That is, if your package is named foo, and a user installs it, and then does require("foo"), then your main module's exports object will be returned.

This should be a module ID relative to the root of your package folder.

For most modules, it makes the most sense to have a main script and often not much else.

To put it short:

1. You only need a main parameter in your package.json if the entry point to your package differs from index.js in its root folder. For example, people often put the entry point to lib/index.js or lib/<packagename>.js, in this case the corresponding script must be described as main in package.json.
2. You can't have two scripts as main, simply because the entry point require('yourpackagename') must be defined unambiguously.