If $a,b\in R$ are distinct numbers satisfying $|a-1|+|b-1|=|a|+|b|=|a+1|+|b+1|$,then find the minimum value of $|a-b|$
Go through the cases. W.l.o.g. let $a \ge b$.
$a>1$ and $b>1$ gives $a+b-2= a+b =a+b+2$ which is impossible.
$a<-1$ and $b<-1$: same as case 1
$a>1$ and $1>b>0$ gives $a-b= a+b =a+b+2$ which is impossible.
$a>1$ and $0>b>-1$ gives $a-b= a-b =a+b+2$ which is impossible.
$a\ge1$ and $-1\ge b$ gives $a-b= a-b =a-b$ which is the first possible case. Indeed all numbers satisfying this condition are possible, so the minimum value is $|a-b| = 2$.
The other cases are again impossible.
First of all let's restrict the possible values that $a$ and $b$ can actually take.
If $a$ and $b$ are strictly positive, then $$a+b+2=|a+1|+|b+1|=|a|+|b|=a+b $$ is never satisfied. Similarly, if $a$ and $b$ are strictly negative, $$|a-1|+|b-1|=|a|+|b|$$ fails.
It is also easy to check that either $a=0$ or $b=0$ don't work.
Finally, note that your conditions stay the same if you change sign to $a$ and $b$ at the same time.
For all the reasons above, we shall assume $a>0$ and $b<0$. We can restrict further the possible values that $a$ and $b$ can take. We have $$a-b = |a|+|b| = |a-1|+|b-1| = |a-1| -b+1,$$ since $b-1$ is negative. But this implies $$|a-1| = a-1,$$ which means $a \ge 1$.
Similarly, from $$a-b = |a|+|b| = |a+1|+|b+1| = a+1 +|b+1|$$ we obtain $b \le -1$.
Thus we can finally solve your problem, since $$|a-b| = a-b$$ takes minimum value $2$ as $a$ can't be smaller than $1$ and $b$ can't be bigger than $-1$.
Consider the $16$ cases:
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$$\begin{align}1) \ &a,b\ge 1 \Rightarrow \\ & \ \ \ \ \ a-1+b-1=a+b=a+1+b+1 \Rightarrow \emptyset;\\ 2) \ &0\le a\le 1, b\ge 1 \Rightarrow \\ & \ \ \ \ \ -a+1+b-1=a+b=a+1+b+1 \Rightarrow \emptyset;\\ 3) \ &-1\le a\le 0, b\ge 1 \Rightarrow \\ & \ \ \ \ \ -a+1+b-1=-a+b=a+1+b+1 \Rightarrow \\ & \ \ \ \ \ a=-1 \Rightarrow b=1 \Rightarrow (a,b)=(-1,1) \Rightarrow \\ & \ \ \ \ \ |a-b|=2 \ \text{(min)};\\ 4, 7, 8) \ &(a,b)=(-1,1);\\ 5, 6, 11, 12,15,16) \ &\emptyset;\\ 9,10,13,14) \ &(a,b)=(1,-1). \end{align}$$