Getting a PID from a Background Process Run as Another User
Succinctly - with a good deal of difficulty.
You have to arrange for the su'd shell to write the child PID to a file and then pick the output. Given that it will be 'joe' creating the file and not 'dex', that adds another layer of complexity.
The simplest solution is probably:
su - joe -c "/path/to/my_daemon & echo \$! > /tmp/su.joe.$$"
bg=$(</tmp/su.joe.$$)
rm -f /tmp/su.joe.$$ # Probably fails - joe owns it, dex does not
The next solution involves using a spare file descriptor - number 3.
su - joe -c "/path/to/my_daemon 3>&- & echo \$! 1>&3" 3>/tmp/su.joe.$$
bg=$(</tmp/su.joe.$$)
rm -f /tmp/su.joe.$$
If you're worried about interrupts etc (and you probably should be), then you trap things too:
tmp=/tmp/su.joe.$$
trap "rm -f $tmp; exit 1" 0 1 2 3 13 15
su - joe -c "/path/to/my_daemon 3>&- & echo \$! 1>&3" 3>$tmp
bg=$(<$tmp)
rm -f $tmp
trap 0 1 2 3 13 15
(The caught signals are HUP, INT, QUIT, PIPE and TERM - plus 0 for shell exit.)
Warning: nice theory - untested code...