How do I see all foreign keys to a table or column?

If you use InnoDB and defined FK's you could query the information_schema database e.g.:

SELECT * FROM information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS 
WHERE information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS.CONSTRAINT_TYPE = 'FOREIGN KEY' 
AND information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS.TABLE_SCHEMA = 'myschema'
AND information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS.TABLE_NAME = 'mytable';

EDIT: As pointed out in the comments, this is not the correct answer to the OPs question, but it is useful to know this command. This question showed up in Google for what I was looking for, and figured I'd leave this answer for the others to find.

SHOW CREATE TABLE `<yourtable>`;

I found this answer here: MySQL : show constraints on tables command

I needed this way because I wanted to see how the FK functioned, rather than just see if it existed or not.

For a Table:

SELECT 
  TABLE_NAME,COLUMN_NAME,CONSTRAINT_NAME, REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME,REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME
FROM
  INFORMATION_SCHEMA.KEY_COLUMN_USAGE
WHERE
  REFERENCED_TABLE_SCHEMA = '<database>' AND
  REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME = '<table>';

For a Column:

SELECT 
  TABLE_NAME,COLUMN_NAME,CONSTRAINT_NAME, REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME,REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME
FROM
  INFORMATION_SCHEMA.KEY_COLUMN_USAGE
WHERE
  REFERENCED_TABLE_SCHEMA = '<database>' AND
  REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME = '<table>' AND
  REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME = '<column>';

Basically, we changed REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME with REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME in the where clause.

Posting on an old answer to add some useful information.

I had a similar problem, but I also wanted to see the CONSTRAINT_TYPE along with the REFERENCED table and column names. So,

1. To see all FKs in your table:

   USE '<yourschema>';
   
   SELECT i.TABLE_NAME, i.CONSTRAINT_TYPE, i.CONSTRAINT_NAME, k.REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME, k.REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME 
   FROM information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS i 
   LEFT JOIN information_schema.KEY_COLUMN_USAGE k ON i.CONSTRAINT_NAME = k.CONSTRAINT_NAME 
   WHERE i.CONSTRAINT_TYPE = 'FOREIGN KEY' 
   AND i.TABLE_SCHEMA = DATABASE()
   AND i.TABLE_NAME = '<yourtable>';
   

2. To see all the tables and FKs in your schema:

   USE '<yourschema>';
   
   SELECT i.TABLE_NAME, i.CONSTRAINT_TYPE, i.CONSTRAINT_NAME, k.REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME, k.REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME 
   FROM information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS i 
   LEFT JOIN information_schema.KEY_COLUMN_USAGE k ON i.CONSTRAINT_NAME = k.CONSTRAINT_NAME 
   WHERE i.CONSTRAINT_TYPE = 'FOREIGN KEY' 
   AND i.TABLE_SCHEMA = DATABASE();
   

3. To see all the FKs in your database:

   SELECT i.TABLE_SCHEMA, i.TABLE_NAME, i.CONSTRAINT_TYPE, i.CONSTRAINT_NAME, k.REFERENCED_TABLE_NAME, k.REFERENCED_COLUMN_NAME 
   FROM information_schema.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS i 
   LEFT JOIN information_schema.KEY_COLUMN_USAGE k ON i.CONSTRAINT_NAME = k.CONSTRAINT_NAME 
   WHERE i.CONSTRAINT_TYPE = 'FOREIGN KEY';
   

Remember!

This is using the InnoDB storage engine. If you can't seem to get any foreign keys to show up after adding them it's probably because your tables are using MyISAM.

To check:

SELECT * TABLE_NAME, ENGINE FROM information_schema.TABLES WHERE TABLE_SCHEMA = '<yourschema>';

To fix, use this:

ALTER TABLE `<yourtable>` ENGINE=InnoDB;