Interesting "params of ref" feature, any workarounds?

There isn't really a way. You could do something like this:

public static void Main(string[] args)
{
    BooleanWrapper a = true, b = true, c = true, d = true, e = new BooleanWrapper();
    b.SetTo(a, c, d, e);
}

public static void SetTo(this BooleanWrapper sourceWrapper, params BooleanWrapper[] wrappers)
{
    foreach (var w in wrappers)
        w.Value = sourceWrapper.Value;
}

public class BooleanWrapper
{
    public BooleanWrapper() { }

    public BooleanWrapper(Boolean value)
    {
        Value = value;
    }

    public Boolean Value { get; set; }

    public static implicit operator BooleanWrapper(Boolean value)
    {
        return new BooleanWrapper(value);
    }
}

But then again how is that any better than just doing this:

public static void Main(string[] args)
{
    Boolean[] bools = new Boolean[5];
    bools.SetTo(bools[1]); // Note I changed the order of arguments. I think this makes more sense.
}

public static void SetTo(this Boolean[] bools, Boolean value)
{
    for(int i = 0; i < bools.Length; i++)
        bools[i] = value;
}

After all, an array is a sequence of variables. If you need something that behaves like a sequence of variables, use an array.

Unfortunately the community of Java, and now .NET, developers decided that less flexibility in the name of "safety" is the preferred solution, and to achieve the same result with less lines of code you have to opt for extraordinary complexity (all those class structures, delegates, etc.).

In Delphi I could simply do something like this:

var
  a: integer; f: double; n: integer;
sscanf(fmtstr, valuestr, [@a, @f, @n]);

//<-- "sscanf" is a function I wrote myself that takes an open array of pointers.

In C# You would have to do:

int a; double f; int n;
object [] o = new object[];
sscanf(fmtstr, valuestr, ref o);
a = o[0];
f = o[1];
n = o[2];

That's 5 lines of code to do what I could do in 1 line of Delphi code. I think there is a formula somewhere that the likelihood of bugs in code increases geometrically with the number of lines of code; so if you have 20 lines of code you're code is 4 times more likely to have bugs than if you have 10.

Of course, you can decrease your # lines of code by using the delegate with all those weird angle brackets and strange syntax, but I would think that's also a haven for bugs.

This is not possible. To explain why, first read my essay on why it is that we optimize deallocation of local variables of value type by putting them on the stack:

https://web.archive.org/web/20100224071314/http://blogs.msdn.com/ericlippert/archive/2009/05/04/the-stack-is-an-implementation-detail-part-two.aspx

Now that you understand that, it should be clear why you cannot store a "ref bool" in an array. If you could, then you could have an array which survives longer than the stack variable being referenced. We have two choices: either allow this, and produce programs which crash and die horribly if you get it wrong -- this is the choice made by the designers of C. Or, disallow it, and have a system which is less flexible but more safe. We chose the latter.

But let's think about this a little deeper. If what you want is to pass around "thing which allows me to set a variable", we have that. That's just a delegate:

static void DoStuff<T>(this T thing, params Action<T>[] actions)
{
    foreach(var action in actions) action(thing);
}
...
bool b = whatever;
b.DoStuff(x=>{q = x;}, x=>{r = x;} );

Make sense?