Is there an addon which you can test css selectors in firefox?
Yes you can go for FireBug, a versatile Firefox web development add-on.
(source: getfirebug.com)
To test a CSS selector, go to the "Console" tab and enter a command in the bottom form (more info on how to find the command line).
Inside the command line use the $$("your CSS selector")
syntax to test CSS selectors, explained in more detail here. For example use this command to select everything:
$$("body")
Edit 2019-12-04:
The firefinder addon no longer exists, but you can use the developer console (press F12), and the $$ function to get elements matching a selector, eg. to select all divs: $$('div')
Old answer:
FireFinder does exactly what you are looking for. You can evaluate either CSS, or XPath expressions, it will list the matching elements, and also draw a red border around them.