Show/Prove that $F_{\alpha,n,m} =1/F_{1-\alpha,m,n}$
If you already established that $$ 1/F_{(m,n)} = F_{(n,m)}, $$ by the reciprocal of the chi square distributions, then let $X\sim F_{(m,n)}$ hence $1/X\sim F_{(n,m)}$, so \begin{align} \alpha =& P(X\le F_{\alpha, (m,n})\\ =& P(1/X \ge 1/F_{a, (m,n)} )\\ =& 1 - P(1/X \le 1/F_{a, (m,n)} )\\ =&1-P( F_{(n,m)} \le 1/F_{a, (m,n)})\\ =&1-F(1/F_{a, (m,n)}) \end{align} thus, \begin{align} 1-\alpha =& F_{(n,m)}(1/F_{a, (m,n)})\\ F_{1-\alpha, (n,m)} =& 1/F_{a, (m,n)}. \end{align}
This relationship is used to get lower tail probabilties of F-distributions. Most tables of F-distributions give only upper tail probabilities.
The succinct answer to your main question is as follows: When you take reciprocals, the sense of the inequality is changed: $P(X \le c) = P(1/X \ge 1/c).$
Statistical software usually gives the complete PDF of a distribution. Suppose $X \sim \mathsf{F}(5, 10)$ and you want to cut off the lower 5% of the probability in this distribution. That is, you seek $c$ such that $P(X \le c) = 0.05.$ In R statistical software quantile 0.05 of $X$ is $c = 0.2112$ to four places.
qf(.05, 5, 10) # in R 'qf' is the inverse CDF or quantile function
## 0.2111904
pf(.2111904, 5,10) # in R 'pf' is the CDF
## 0.04999999
Your result shows that this is the same as cutting 5% of the probability of the probability in the distribution $\mathsf{F}(10, 5)$ in the upper tail and taking the reciprocal.
That is, $Y = 1/X \sim \mathsf{F}(10, 5),$ so that $P(Y \ge d) = .95$ and using $c=1/d$ as the lower 5% cutoff of $X.$ Here $d = 4.735,$ which you should verify from the F-table in your textbook. Also, $c = 1/d = 0.2112$ cuts 5% from the lower tail of $\mathsf{F}(5, 10),$ as previously found directly from R software.
d = qf(.95, 10, 5); d; 1/d
## 4.735063 # d = 4.735 is the 95th quantile of F(10, 5)
## 0.2111904 # c = 1/d = 0.2112 is the 5th quantile of F(5, 10)
Note: In the notation $F_{\alpha, n, m},$ the probability $\alpha$ is not a quantile; it is an upper-tail probability.
The figure below shows the density function of $\mathsf{F}(5,10).$ The areas beneath the density to the left of 0.2112 and to the right of 3.326 are both 5%. You can find the right-hand cutoff from printed tables of the F-distribution.