java.net.ConnectException: Connection refused

This exception means that there is no service listening on the IP/port you are trying to connect to:

• You are trying to connect to the wrong IP/Host or port.
• You have not started your server.
• Your server is not listening for connections.
• On Windows servers, the listen backlog queue is full.

I would check:

• Host name and port you're trying to connect to
• The server side has managed to start listening correctly
• There's no firewall blocking the connection

The simplest starting point is probably to try to connect manually from the client machine using telnet or Putty. If that succeeds, then the problem is in your client code. If it doesn't, you need to work out why it hasn't. Wireshark may help you on this front.