List callbacks?

You'd have to subclass list and modify __setitem__.

class NotifyingList(list):

    def __init__(self, *args, **kwargs):
        self.on_change_callbacks = []

    def __setitem__(self, index, value):
        for callback in self.on_change_callbacks:
            callback(self, index, value)
        super(NotifyingList, self).__setitem__(name, index)

notifying_list = NotifyingList()

def print_change(list_, index, value):
    print 'Changing index %d to %s' % (index, value)

notifying_list.on_change_callbacks.append(print_change)

As noted in comments, it's more than just __setitem__.

You might even be better served by building an object that implements the list interface and dynamically adds and removes descriptors to and from itself in place of the normal list machinery. Then you can reduce your callback calls to just the descriptor's __get__, __set__, and __delete__.

I'm almost certain this can't be done with the standard list.

I think the cleanest way would be to write your own class to do this (perhaps inheriting from list).

Borrowing from the suggestion by @sr2222, here's my attempt. (I'll use a decorator without the syntactic sugar):

import sys

_pyversion = sys.version_info[0]

def callback_method(func):
    def notify(self,*args,**kwargs):
        for _,callback in self._callbacks:
            callback()
        return func(self,*args,**kwargs)
    return notify

class NotifyList(list):
    extend = callback_method(list.extend)
    append = callback_method(list.append)
    remove = callback_method(list.remove)
    pop = callback_method(list.pop)
    __delitem__ = callback_method(list.__delitem__)
    __setitem__ = callback_method(list.__setitem__)
    __iadd__ = callback_method(list.__iadd__)
    __imul__ = callback_method(list.__imul__)

    #Take care to return a new NotifyList if we slice it.
    if _pyversion < 3:
        __setslice__ = callback_method(list.__setslice__)
        __delslice__ = callback_method(list.__delslice__)
        def __getslice__(self,*args):
            return self.__class__(list.__getslice__(self,*args))

    def __getitem__(self,item):
        if isinstance(item,slice):
            return self.__class__(list.__getitem__(self,item))
        else:
            return list.__getitem__(self,item)

    def __init__(self,*args):
        list.__init__(self,*args)
        self._callbacks = []
        self._callback_cntr = 0

    def register_callback(self,cb):
        self._callbacks.append((self._callback_cntr,cb))
        self._callback_cntr += 1
        return self._callback_cntr - 1

    def unregister_callback(self,cbid):
        for idx,(i,cb) in enumerate(self._callbacks):
            if i == cbid:
                self._callbacks.pop(idx)
                return cb
        else:
            return None


if __name__ == '__main__':
    A = NotifyList(range(10))
    def cb():
        print ("Modify!")

    #register a callback
    cbid = A.register_callback(cb)

    A.append('Foo')
    A += [1,2,3]
    A *= 3
    A[1:2] = [5]
    del A[1:2]

    #Add another callback.  They'll be called in order (oldest first)
    def cb2():
        print ("Modify2")
    A.register_callback(cb2)
    print ("-"*80)
    A[5] = 'baz'
    print ("-"*80)

    #unregister the first callback
    A.unregister_callback(cbid)

    A[5] = 'qux'
    print ("-"*80)

    print (A)
    print (type(A[1:3]))
    print (type(A[1:3:2]))
    print (type(A[5]))

The great thing about this is if you realize you forgot to consider a particular method, it's just 1 line of code to add it. (For example, I forgot __iadd__ and __imul__ until just now :)

EDIT

I've updated the code slightly to be py2k and py3k compatible. Additionally, slicing creates a new object of the same type as the parent. Please feel free to continue poking holes in this recipe so I can make it better. This actually seems like a pretty neat thing to have on hand ...