Apple - Renaming user failed, lost admin rights
From I don't have administrator account on my mac
Boot into Single User Mode: Start/restart your Mac. As soon as you hear the startup tone, press and hold ⌘ + S until you see a black screen with white lettering. (If you end up back on the login screen after a flash of the black screen with white lettering, enter your password and it will return to the black screen.)
Mount the drive by typing
/sbin/mount -uw /
then ↩ enter.Remove the Apple Setup Done file by typing
rm /var/db/.AppleSetupDone
then ↩ enter.Reboot by typing
reboot
then ↩ enter.Complete the setup process, creating a new admin account.
This should allow you to create a new admin user.
I will edit this answer to include a fix for your old user soon.