TikZ Grid Without Edges
If you make the coordinates not an exact multiple of the step size you can get this effect:
\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{tikz}
\begin{document}
\begin{tikzpicture}
\draw[step=0.5cm,color=gray] (.75,.75) grid (3.75,3.75);
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{document}
If you care for something a bit fancier, you could also try that one:
\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{tikz}
\usetikzlibrary{fadings}
\begin{document}
\begin{tikzpicture}
\draw[step=0.5cm,color=gray,path fading=south] (.99,.75) grid (3.5,1);
\draw[step=0.5cm,color=gray,path fading=north] (.99,3.5) grid (3.5,3.75);
\draw[step=0.5cm,color=gray,path fading=west] (.75,.99) grid (1,3.5);
\draw[step=0.5cm,color=gray,path fading=east] (3.5,.99) grid (3.75,3.5);
\draw[step=0.5cm,color=gray] (1,1) grid (3.5,3.5);
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{document}
I needed the same thing, but had things in the cells of the grid, which I also wanted to fade out. This solution is perhaps less elegant than others, but permits this sort of fading.
It just puts fading rectangles over the edges so they fade out to white.
\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{tikz}
\usetikzlibrary{fadings}
\begin{document}
\begin{tikzpicture}
\draw[step=0.5cm] (0.1,0.1) grid (3.9,3.9);
% Some letters to demonstrate fading
\node at (0.25,0.25) {F};
\node at (0.75,0.75) {A};
\node at (1.25,0.25) {D};
\node at (1.75,0.75) {E};
\begin{scope}[transparency group]
% Left edge
\fill[path fading=east, color=white] (0,0) rectangle (1,4);
% Bottom edge
\fill[path fading=north, color=white] (0,0) rectangle (4,1);
% Right edge
\fill[path fading=west, color=white] (3,0) rectangle (4,4);
% Top edge
\fill[path fading=south, color=white] (0,3) rectangle (4,4);
\end{scope}
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{document}