What is the difference between ? and Object in Java generics?

An instance of HashMap<String, String> matches Map<String, ?> but not Map<String, Object>. Say you want to write a method that accepts maps from Strings to anything: If you would write

public void foobar(Map<String, Object> ms) {
    ...
}

you can't supply a HashMap<String, String>. If you write

public void foobar(Map<String, ?> ms) {
    ...
}

it works!

A thing sometimes misunderstood in Java's generics is that List<String> is not a subtype of List<Object>. (But String[] is in fact a subtype of Object[], that's one of the reasons why generics and arrays don't mix well. (arrays in Java are covariant, generics are not, they are invariant)).

Sample: If you'd like to write a method that accepts Lists of InputStreams and subtypes of InputStream, you'd write

public void foobar(List<? extends InputStream> ms) {
    ...
}

By the way: Joshua Bloch's Effective Java is an excellent resource when you'd like to understand the not so simple things in Java. (Your question above is also covered very well in the book.)

It's easy to understand if you remember that Collection<Object> is just a generic collection that contains objects of type Object, but Collection<?> is a super type of all types of collections.

Another way to think about this problem is that

HashMap<String, ?> hash1;

is equivalent to

HashMap<String, ? extends Object> hash1;

Couple this knowledge with the "Get and Put Principle" in section (2.4) from Java Generics and Collections:

The Get and Put Principle: use an extends wildcard when you only get values out of a structure, use super wildcard when you only put values into a structure, and don't use a wildcard when you both get and put.

and the wild card may start making more sense, hopefully.