Why is so much work done on numerical verification of the Riemann Hypothesis?
People are interested in computing the zeros of $\zeta(s)$ and related functions not only as numerical support for RH. Going beyond RH, there are conjectures about the vertical distribution of the nontrivial zeros (after "unfolding" them to have average spacing 1, assuming they are on a vertical line to begin with).
Odlyzko found striking numerical support for such conjectures by making calculations with zeros very high up the critical line: hundreds of millions of zeros around the $10^{20}$-th zero. See the Katz--Sarnak article here and look at the picture on the second and fourth pages. These vertical distribution conjectures do not look convincing by working with low-lying zeros.
If you're not interested in considering large-scale statistics of the zero locations, there is a small refinement of RH worth keeping in mind since the calculations supporting RH are based on it: the (nontrivial) zeros of $\zeta(s)$ are expected to be simple zeros. This has always turned out to be the case in numerical work, and the methods used to confirm all zeros in a region lie exactly on -- not just nearby -- the critical line would not work in their current form if a multiple zero were found. The existence of a multiple zero on the critical line would of course not violate RH, but if anyone did detect one because a zero-counting process doesn't work out (say, suggesting there's a double zero somewhere high up the critical line), I don't know if there is an algorithm waiting in the wings that could be used to prove a double zero exists if a computer suggests a possible location. I think it is more realistic to expect a computer to detect a multiple zero than to detect a counterexample to RH. Of course I really don't expect a computer to detect either such phenomena, but if I had to choose between them...
From Wikipedia's table on its RH page, the latest exhaustive numerical checks on RH (all zeros up to some height) go up to around the $10^{13}$-th zero. There are other conjectures that have been tested numerically far beyond $10^{13}$ data points, e.g., the $3x+1$ problem has been checked for all positive integers up to $80 \cdot 2^{60} \approx 10^{19}$, Goldbach's conjecture has been checked for the first $2 \cdot 10^{18}$ even numbers greater than $2$, and the number of twin prime pairs found so far is over $8\cdot 10^{14}$. With such examples in mind, I would not agree that the numerical testing of RH is out of line with how far people are willing to let their computers run to test other open problems.
I would add a few more comments to the very pertinent ones above:
1: We are lucky to have two things that work in our favor - an excellent representation of $\zeta$ on the critical line by a simple real function (simple up to a good approximation, approximation usually called the Riemann Siegel formula) - the Hardy function, $Z(t)$ - multiplied by a function of absolute value $1$, so critical zeros of a very complicated transcendental complex function ($\zeta(s)$) are also zeros of a much simpler real function, $Z(t)$, zeros that can be determined to high accuracy.
2: We are also lucky to have a very accurate formula (Riemann-von Mangoldt) that determines with perfect accuracy the number of zeros in the critical strip up to a fixed bound on the imaginary part, so putting 1 and 2 together we conclude that RH is true up to high imaginary part bounds by computing the zeros on the critical line with 1 and showing that there are these many zeros in the full strip up to that level by 2:
3: There is a duality between $\zeta$ non-trivial zeroes and primes that allows to at least try investigate some problems about primes using $\zeta$ zeroes instead, so having a huge database of such could be quite useful at least potentially
Part of the point is that such numerical checks can be demonstrations of the efficiency of this or that new algorithm. However, it is also the case that a finite check (that all the zeroes of $\zeta(s)$ with $\Im(s)\leq T$, say, lie on the critical line) can be used in actual proofs of other statements, provided that it is rigorous.
For that matter, computing the first $n$ zeroes of the Riemann zeta function can be used to disprove another conjecture. Take, for instance,
Odlyzko, A. M., & te Riele, H. J. J. (1985). Disproof of the Mertens conjecture. Journal für die reine und angewandte Mathematik, 357, 138-160.