Can I stop sp_reset_connection being called to improve performance?

Personally, I'd leave it.

Given what it does, I want to make sure I have no temp tables in scope or transactions left open.

To be fair, you will gain a bigger performance boost by not running profiler against your production database. And do you have any numbers or articles or recommendations about what you can gain from this please?

If you're using .NET to connect to SQL Server, disabling of the extra reset call was disabled as of .NET 3.5 -- see here. (The property remains, but it does nothing.)

I guess Microsoft realized (as someone did experimentally here) that opening the door to avoid the reset was far more dangerous than it was to get a (likely) small performance gain. Can't say I blame them.

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Does the client send exec sp_reset_connection, wait for a response, then send the real sql?

EDIT: I was wrong -- see here -- the answer is no.

Summary: there is a special bit set in a TDS message that specifies that the connection should be reset, and SQL Server executes sp_reset_connection automatically. It appears as a separate batch in Profiler and would always be executed before the actual query you wanted to execute, so my test was invalid.

Yes, it's sent in a separate batch.

I put together a little C# test program to demonstrate this because I was curious:

using System.Data.SqlClient;

(...)

private void Form1_Load(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
    SqlConnectionStringBuilder csb = new SqlConnectionStringBuilder();
    csb.DataSource = @"MyInstanceName";
    csb.IntegratedSecurity = true;
    csb.InitialCatalog = "master";
    csb.ApplicationName = "blarg";

    for (int i = 0; i < 2; i++)
        _RunQuery(csb);
}

private void _RunQuery(SqlConnectionStringBuilder csb)
{
    using (SqlConnection conn = new SqlConnection(csb.ToString()))
    {
        conn.Open();

        SqlCommand cmd = new SqlCommand("WAITFOR DELAY '00:00:05'", conn);

        cmd.ExecuteNonQuery();
    }
}

Start Profiler and attach it to your instance of choice, filtering on the dummy application name I provided. Then, put a breakpoint on the cmd.ExecuteNonQuery(); line and run the program.

The first time you step over, just the query runs, and all you get is the SQL:BatchCompleted event after the 5 second wait. When the breakpoint hits the second time, all you see in profiler is still just the one event. When you step over again, you immediately see the exec sp_reset_connection event, and then the SQL:BatchCompleted event shows up after the delay.

The only way to get rid of the exec sp_reset_connection call (which may or may not be a legitimate performance problem for you) would be to turn off .NET's connection pooling. And if you're planning to do that, you'd likely want to build your own connection pooling mechanism, because just turning it off and doing nothing else will probably hurt more overall than taking the hit of the extra roundtrip, and you will have to deal with the correctness issues manually.

This Q/A could be helpful: What does "exec sp_reset_connection" mean in Sql Server Profiler?

However, I did a quick test using Entity Framework and MS-SQL 2008 R2. It shows that "exec sp_reset_connection" isn't time consuming after the first call:

for (int i = 0; i < n; i++)
{
    using (ObjectContext context = new myEF())
    {
                
        DateTime timeStartOpenConnection = DateTime.Now;
        context.Connection.Open();
        Console.WriteLine();
        Console.WriteLine("Opening connection time waste: {0} ticks.", (DateTime.Now - timeStartOpenConnection).Ticks);

        ObjectSet<myEntity> query = context.CreateObjectSet<myEntity>();
        DateTime timeStart = DateTime.Now;
        myEntity e = query.OrderByDescending(x => x.EventDate).Skip(i).Take(1).SingleOrDefault<myEntity>();
        Console.Write("{0}. Created By {1} on {2}... ", e.ID, e.CreatedBy, e.EventDate);
        Console.WriteLine("({0} ticks).", (DateTime.Now - timeStart).Ticks);

        DateTime timeStartCloseConnection = DateTime.Now;
        context.Connection.Close();
        context.Connection.Dispose();
        Console.WriteLine("Closing connection time waste: {0} ticks.", (DateTime.Now - timeStartCloseConnection).Ticks);
        Console.WriteLine();
    }
}

And output was this:

Opening connection time waste: 5390101 ticks. 585. Created By sa on 12/20/2011 2:18:23 PM... (2560183 ticks). Closing connection time waste: 0 ticks.

Opening connection time waste: 0 ticks. 584. Created By sa on 12/20/2011 2:18:20 PM... (1730173 ticks). Closing connection time waste: 0 ticks.

Opening connection time waste: 0 ticks. 583. Created By sa on 12/20/2011 2:18:17 PM... (710071 ticks). Closing connection time waste: 0 ticks.

Opening connection time waste: 0 ticks. 582. Created By sa on 12/20/2011 2:18:14 PM... (720072 ticks). Closing connection time waste: 0 ticks.

Opening connection time waste: 0 ticks. 581. Created By sa on 12/20/2011 2:18:09 PM... (740074 ticks). Closing connection time waste: 0 ticks.

So, the final conclusion is: Don't worry about "exec sp_reset_connection"! It wastes nothing.