MySQL - UPDATE query based on SELECT Query

You can actually do this one of two ways:

MySQL update join syntax:

UPDATE tableA a
INNER JOIN tableB b ON a.name_a = b.name_b
SET validation_check = if(start_dts > end_dts, 'VALID', '')
-- where clause can go here

ANSI SQL syntax:

UPDATE tableA SET validation_check = 
    (SELECT if(start_DTS > end_DTS, 'VALID', '') AS validation_check
        FROM tableA
        INNER JOIN tableB ON name_A = name_B
        WHERE id_A = tableA.id_A)

Pick whichever one seems most natural to you.

Easy in MySQL:

UPDATE users AS U1, users AS U2 
SET U1.name_one = U2.name_colX
WHERE U2.user_id = U1.user_id

UPDATE
    `table1` AS `dest`,
    (
        SELECT
            *
        FROM
            `table2`
        WHERE
            `id` = x
    ) AS `src`
SET
    `dest`.`col1` = `src`.`col1`
WHERE
    `dest`.`id` = x
;

Hope this works for you.