.NET DateTime to SqlDateTime Conversion
If you are checking for DBNULL, converting a SQL Datetime to a .NET DateTime should not be a problem. However, you can run into problems converting a .NET DateTime to a valid SQL DateTime.
SQL Server does not recognize dates prior to 1/1/1753. Thats the year England adopted the Gregorian Calendar. Usually checking for DateTime.MinValue is sufficient, but if you suspect that the data could have years before the 18th century, you need to make another check or use a different data type. (I often wonder what Museums use in their databases)
Checking for max date is not really necessary, SQL Server and .NET DateTime both have a max date of 12/31/9999 It may be a valid business rule but it won't cause a problem.
Is it possible that the date could actually be outside that range? Does it come from user input? If the answer to either of these questions is yes, then you should always check - otherwise you're leaving your application prone to error.
You can format your date for inclusion in an SQL statement rather easily:
var sqlFormattedDate = myDateTime.Date.ToString("yyyy-MM-dd HH:mm:ss");